Answering Your FAQs about Living in Denver

A year and a half ago I wrote all about my decision to move from New York City to Denver. The response to that post has been incredible! So many of you have contacted me, eager to learn more about how I’ve found life in the Mile High City after living here for some time. Many of you are contemplating a move of your own, others are curious to know if my experience has been the same as their own.

Now that I’m three years into living in Denver, I’m going to give you the lowdown on all the feels about relocating to Colorado – all from my perspective as a former New Yorker.

FYI – I’ve created a private Facebook group “I Moved to Denver” where you can join our community of transplants from major US and international cities to get advice and share stories about moving to Denver. Please join us!

Here are some of the most frequently asked questions about living in Denver and my answers:

Is the quality of life better in Denver vs. NYC?

I think so! I feel like my quality of life has drastically improved moving from NYC > DEN.

Housing: Rentals

  • Mainly the housing is more affordable and accessible compared to what it’s like in NYC. The rental market is very plentiful in Denver, there are so many new buildings it’s pretty easy to find one to live in.
  • If you are a working professional and/or have the means, you can simply walk into the leasing office of an apartment building and find an apartment. However, this means on the affordable housing front, there are challenges in Denver.

Housing: Buying

  • If you are looking to buy, the housing market has heated up over the last decade, and to many people it is seen as being expensive, although some signs point to it slowing down a bit.
  • People who aren’t from NY or SF will tell you it’s expensive (and they are right, housing prices have skyrocketed over the years), but coming from NYC and our distorted view of how much housing costs, in our eyes you get a lot more for your money.

How different is the lifestyle in Denver compared to New York?

I think NYC and Denver are very different places. I generally don’t even try to make comparisons, that’s how different I think they are. If you are looking for a place that is more laid back than NYC/Brooklyn, then Denver definitely fits the bill.


  • The one thing I have noticed recently is whereas in places like NYC and San Francisco there is a major class and status undercurrent, in Denver I feel like that isn’t there. People really don’t seem to care where you live or how much “stuff” you have here. It’s much more down-to-earth, which I like.

Active lifestyle

  • People here love the outdoors here. People are very outdoorsy here and it’s easy to find hiking, rock climbing, cycling, clubs and groups you can join and meet people with similar interests. There’s still a spirit of the West that runs through Denver, so people are also pretty independent – I don’t really feel like people move around in predetermined herds. It’s kinda a do your own thing, drop in and out of groups kind of place. You might also discover your outdoorsy side as a result of living here, just like I did!

How easy is it to make friends in Denver?

In general, I think it’s a lot easier to be a newbie in Denver than in a city like NYC. Since it’s a city of transplants, people are very welcoming.

People seem to be happier

  • Also what I find is that most people move to Denver because they WANT to be here, not because they HAVE to be here and with that brings a freedom to do things not out of obligation, but because you like them and want to do them.
  • NYC can be a very rewarding place to live (and I think everyone who is able to should live there at least once in their life), but it definitely takes a certain level of energy, commitment, and tolerance for pain (seriously). However, NYC can be downright depressing if you don’t want to be there.

Building a network

  • In terms of what it was like to move, it was difficult to move someplace where I didn’t have a large network of friends or family, but I was lucky because I was moving as one part of a married couple (you always have a buddy to hang out with) and we had one relative living in the Denver area already – so that was a start.
  • However, what I think you will find about Denver is that people are very friendly. Lots of people from all over the US (I don’t meet a lot of internationals) move to Denver from places like New York, Texas, California, the Midwest, and since many people don’t have established roots, they are very friendly and welcoming.
  • I recently met a woman who moved here from Florida just a few months ago and she was marveling about how many new friends she had and how much she loved living here.

Do you get homesick? Is it hard being away from your family and friends back home?

Short answer: No, I don’t really get that homesick. As I stated before, Denver is very different than New York, so it’s not like I’m constantly comparing the two. However, I do end up going back to NYC several times a year so I get to see family quite frequently, so I’m able to get my NYC fix every few months and check in with my friends and relatives.

If I didn’t have that, I probably might be slightly homesick, but not enough to want to move back at this point in my life.

What’s the weather like? No, seriously, is it cold all the time?

Without fail, all year long my co-workers back in New York are constantly asking me if it’s cold in Denver. Let’s get this straight: DENVER IS NOT ANTARCTICA.

Denver has temperate weather all year long. It does get colder in the winter – we can have days that are below freezing, but because it’s a semi-arid climate, the humidity is lower so you don’t get that type of cold where the wind just cuts right through you and chills your bones. We do get snow, but again, because it’s semi-arid, the snow evaporates quickly (no piles of dirt snow hanging around for weeks), and there will be days where it will snow and then the next day is 75 degrees and sunny – even in February!

I’m always running into people who moved here from New York. At times I thought maybe I should start a club for former New Yorkers who now live in Denver. You will find many people who have moved from all over the country coming to Denver. It’s a very vibrant city with lots of younger people and tons of creative energy.

What’s the dating scene like in Denver compared to NYC?

I’m married, so I’m not really the best person to answer this question. Yes, Denver is known as “MENver” but in reality the population is almost evenly split between men and women. Some of my single friends complain about the “quality” of the men (too “bro”-ish, flakey) but honestly, isn’t that EVERYWHERE???? It is most definitely not worse than what you’re dealing with in NYC.

I’m a New Yorker so I don’t really do the driving thing. Do I need to drive to live in Denver?

Driving is kinda a thing here – most people drive, but increasingly I’m meeting people who don’t own cars.

Living without a car in Denver

  • When we moved from NYC we didn’t have a car, and we have decided not to get one. We crunched the numbers and found that it would probably be cheaper NOT to own a car because we wouldn’t need to pay all the “hidden” costs of owning one (no paying to lease a vehicle, no insurance, no parking to pay for, etc.).
  • How do I get around? Just like any major city, we’ve got ridesharing like Lyft and Uber. We also have public transportation that works really well if the train line or bus route goes to where you are going, but there are definitely limitations.
  • Riding bikes is a great way to get around when it’s not too cold. If you end up getting a job downtown, it will be pretty easy for you to get around and do all your normal things without a car.
  • When we want to get out to the mountains, we’ll rent a Car2Go or Zipcar. If we need to go further than the companies allow in terms of mileage, a traditional car rental place is another option.

I don’t think I can get away with not owning a car. Is traffic bad?

Since I don’t regularly drive, I can’t tell you from first-hand experience, however if you are trying to go anywhere during rush hour, it can be painful. Denver was recently ranked as the 18th most congested city in the US, but cities like LA, Boston, NYC, and San Francisco were worse.

Also if there is a Rockies or Broncos game, traffic can be pretty bad coming into downtown as well. Many people try to avoid traffic by staggering their work hours (coming in early, leaving earlier), or take public transit that can bypass traffic, like the light rail.

What’s the political climate in Denver? Is it liberal or conservative?

Colorado is a purple state.

Pockets of blue

  • Unsurprisingly, the heavily urban areas are pretty blue, where the more rural areas are red (with the exception of Colorado Springs, Castle Rock, and Greeley, which lean conservative).
  • Denver is considered a reliably blue area, as is Boulder, but that doesn’t mean everyone is left-leaning.

No dominant party

  • Colorado’s registered voting blocs are closely split between Republicans, Democrats, and Independents, but Independent voters are the largest bloc. As a result, I think many Coloradans like to think of themselves as independent thinkers.
  • One of the things I have really liked about voting since moving to Denver is that I feel like my vote really “counts” because votes are not guaranteed to sway in the favor of one particular party.

How easy is to access to the outdoors from Denver?

I would say it’s pretty easy to access nature from the city, especially if you have a car. You can find great hiking in nearby Golden or Boulder. When I was training for my NOLS course, we’d drive just 30 minutes to Evergreen and go hiking for a couple hours after work. There are countless county, city, and state parks to explore and hike/mountain bike for free.

Outdoors access without a car

  • It’s definitely a little more challenging to go hiking without a car. However, my husband and I recently experimented taking the FF1 bus to Boulder and getting off within walking distance of some trails in the Green Mountain Memorial Park area, which seemed like a good car-less option for an easy day hike.
  • If you are in to cycling, there are many great cycling trails to take from Denver to other places (which people take advantage of year round). And if you like skiing, but don’t want to drive, Amtrak has a ski train that goes directly from Union Station to Winter Park.

This all sounds great, but I’m still afraid? Any tips on how to figure out if Denver is right for me?

Let’s face it, no amount of imagining or predicting can truly answer that question. Moving to a new city really is one of those things that you won’t know for sure until you’ve tried it. You can always join my Facebook group “I Moved to Denver” to ask additional question from people who were once in your shoes. I also always give the following advice to people thinking of making the leap:

Visit before moving

  • Something we did before moving here was to spend a week in Colorado, test running what it would be like to live here. We stayed a few days in Denver, but then headed out to the mountains and other areas of the state to see how we might spend our weekends.
  • I don’t think I came away convinced either way after our trip, but it definitely made me feel more comfortable with the idea of moving now after I got a little taste of what my life could be like. I would definitely recommend doing something like this so you at least have something “real” to project all your “what if” questions onto.

You can always move back home

  • Also, my husband promised me that if we moved and we didn’t like it, we could always move back. Somehow someone else verbalizing that it was OK to move back “home” if it didn’t work out put my mind at ease.
  • Ultimately, as I mentioned in my original post, I decided that NOT moving because I was afraid would be a bigger regret than having tried. After all, say you move and you don’t like it – at least you’ve learned a bit more about yourself in the process.

Has this post help answer your questions about living in Denver? 

Please leave your story in the comments!

Also, if you’ve just recently moved to Denver (or are looking to visit), check out my city guide to a perfect weekend in Denver. It lists some of my favorite places to visit and eat!

Just moved or are seriously thinking of moving to the Mile High City? I’ve created a private Facebook group “I Moved to Denver” where you can join our community of transplants from major US and international cities to get advice and share stories about moving to Denver. Please join us!

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16 replies on “Answering Your FAQs about Living in Denver”

Great post, Laura! I have lived here about the same amount of time and have one item to note. Yes, people are extremely friendly & down to earth in Denver. Denver is also an easy-access portal to the outdoors like you mentioned. What I consistently notice is that with this easy access, the majority of the city disappears for weekend trips, skiing, camping, whatever the outing may be. This can make it a bit harder to meet new people as a transplant, and I noticed this even more so because I moved from a beach location where everyone stayed put on the weekends. It’s the opposite here, where most everyone leaves 🙂

Hi Carla! Good point. Yes, when the weather is good for the outdoor activities of the season the city can definitely feel like a ghost town! I think that’s why a lot of social activities happen during the week. However, people may be able to find Meetups or other social groups that have outdoor gatherings on the weekend!

Thanks for writing this! I spent 6 months on a contract assignment in Manhattan (for a previous job primarily based in Chicago) and have lived in Denver now for 5 years, and I agree with most of your observations, but as someone with a car who lives in Denver and commutes to Boulder, I can say it’s no worse of a commute than taking the subway in NYC from Brooklyn or Queens to Manhattan unless there’s an accident, but even then it’s a wash. Plus, the cost of maintaining a car is not much more than the cost in public transportation I had in NYC, and the lower tax rate while my wages stay roughly the same ends up being much nicer on the pocket book.

This is so helpful. My husband and I making a decision to move and Denver is on our list. I’m so scared but I know it’s time to leave NY. Any advice Wich neighborhoods are good?

Hi Diana,

My wife and I moved from NYC about 4 months ago and live in Berkeley near Tennyson Street. This is a great neighborhood, as is the Highlands Square area, Sloan Lake, Platt Park, and Washington Park. If you want more of a city vibe, RiNo and LoDo are good, but we love having a yard.


My husband and I are in the works of making this leap possibly. The only thing that scares me is the job market in Denver. I work in the fashion industry as a production manager and haven’t seen many opportunities for work. Like you I live I NYC because it felt like the only option for a while and I’m now realizing I love the outdoors and friendly people hahaha

Thank you for writing this and your original post about your decision. It was like reading my exact thoughts on life in NYC. This has come at the right time for me as I make my final decision about moving. A little bit scarier for me, because I am single but you are right…. Regret is scarier. I think I will take the plunge. One question I did have was about the cost of hauling all your life’s possessions. Was it extremely expensive? What moving company would you recommend in NYC?

Yes, I would highly recommend you start a club for NY transplants. Wish me luck!

Thanks again for the amazing posts on this subject.

Hi Vanessa – Thank you so much for sharing your story. I did use a moving company. (I believe it was called TB Moving.) It was expensive (Maybe around 3k) and I didn’t even have that much stuff and I did almost all my own packing. That said, the company didn’t lose or break anything, so I can’t complain.

I am a transplant from New York .I go back as well to check in on family. How often do you go back, just curious, and for how long? Right now I’m at three times a year for about a week to two weeks each time . Sometimes I feel like I still don’t get my fix! I do not want to move back to New York either at this point but sometimes I’m having pains of homesickness as all of my friends and family are there. I moved here 2 years ago. Just curious ,because I’ve been reading your blog and I feel like I can really compare stories and it has been giving me very helpful advice.

I currently live on Maui, home of my dreams for 9 years now, and the company that I partner with would like me to move to Denver. There are a whole LOT of unknowns about the job which I’m figuring out, but the idea of moving to Denver, a place that I know so many people love, has really got me spinning. I have heard incredible things about Denver from friends and I like that it’s got a laidback friendly culture that’s outdoorsy and most importantly, the weather isn’t super extreme. As special as Denver sounds, it’s not Maui. I’ve been scouring the internet for Denver lifestyle blogs, and I’m so glad that I found yours! I am foodie as well, so finding someone well traveled (I lived in many countries growing up), who loves food, who made a leap of faith leaving their forever home for Denver is like hitting a goldmine. Thank you for the thoughtful posts on moving to/living in Denver. If everything works out, I can certainly see myself loving living in Denver (also loved your post on wearing Patagonia–I have a feeling that I move out there I’m going to be FREEZING and will have to figure out all my layers).

Hello Paige,

Oh I’m so glad you’ve found my posts useful in your potential move to Denver! Maui would be a hard place to leave – it’s so beautiful. But what I will say is Denver does have a lot more food options than Maui (although we don’t have anything exactly like Star Noodle – possibly my favorite place to eat in all of Hawaii) – there’s even a number of Hawaiian restaurants like Ohana in LoHi (they are mainly known for their poke bowls). We don’t have the ocean, but we do have wonderful outdoor activities like skiing, snowshoeing, and other winter sports you just can’t do in HI! Denver’s not quite AS chill as Maui, but I think it’s a nice balance. If you want the more remote feel, you can get that in areas just outside of town, but if you want a more city vibe (with some traffic, but not the truly horrendous traffic of a place like Honolulu), Denver’s got that. If you need any more info, please drop me a line!

You don’t talk about the theater or museums? Galleries? Boutiques? Art classes? Gyms? pilates/yoga? personal training? Writing groups/critique classes/meetups? open mics? the comedy scene? those are the things I am afraid Denver just won’t have

Hi Donna. I’m a big theater and museum lover. I’ve been pretty satisfied with the theater here in Denver. The Denver Center for Performing Arts does a great job with their original productions (and I’m becoming more and more a fan of their “Off-Center” productions – they will be working with David Byrne on an original production that will debut next year!). We also get national tours of the big musicals coming through Denver as well. I’ve been to the opera a number of times, and the performances have been enjoyable. I don’t think Denver can compete with NYC in terms of art museums (I mean… what city could?), however the Denver Art Museum is currently undergoing a multi-million dollar expansion, so it will be exciting once that opens.

I don’t do a lot of retail shopping, but I have seen a bunch of cute shops in RiNo. There’s the Cherry Creek mall for all your standards and high end retailers.

You will have no shortage of exercise options. Exercising is a state pastime.

There are also a number of comedy clubs, and big acts do come to town (I’ve seen Ali Wong, Hannah Gadsby at the Paramount). Saw Roy Wood Jr. at Comedy Works, and I’ve seen Trevor Noah at Red Rocks.

I really feel like Denver has tons of things to do if you look for them and unlike NY it’s not super overwhelming and you don’t feel constant FOMO b/c the events that appeal to any one person are at a managable pace IMHO.

This has been the most spot-on post on moving to Denver. I’ve been on the fence for four months, having visited every month, but this may have sealed the deal! I worry about missing the hustle of NYC, but if we can make it in NYC , I guess we really can do Denver. Like you mentioned, better to try than regret!

Hi Laura thank you so much for creating this platform.We are making plans to move to Co. Next year. The only reason is that my son is growing up like weed and looking for bigger house in NYC is just proven to be breaking my back. We have saved enough to downpay at least would opt for a house in Denver than 1 BR tiny condo in NYC. Its crazy.On the top of that i am curious about Job market since I need to start to pay the mortgages as life start to adjust with the new beginning as Coloradian ! I am in a service industry and am anxious about the income and expenses as well.

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